While divorce is already a common family issue, there are common reasons as well why people decide to get a divorce. Several reasons seem to be good reasons for most couples as well. The following reasons are found on many divorce cases.
#1. Get Married with Wrong Reasons
When people get married for love, they tend to fight all hard situation together. Meanwhile, wrong reason like marriage for money only gives one person so much motivation to fight for the marriage.
#2. Being Lack in Commitment
Sometimes, only one person in marriage that try harder. It makes the relationship remains in imbalance. When this person gets tired, everything collapsed and nothing else there to fight for. It can happen to both man and woman,
#3. Arguing All the Time
A fight in a marriage is very usual and common. However, continuous arguing without any settlement or agreement will lead to depression and it creates huge gap between husband and wife. By then, it is hard to get connected again.
#4. Cheating or Infidelity
Of course, no one wants to get betrayed when he or she already gives absolute trust to the spouse. Cheating is easy to do and it commonly happens so fast. Some people can forgive it but most people can’t.
#5. Get Married Too Young
When people get married in very young age, they commonly are not ready with the commitment and struggle they need to make during the marriage. They don’t have the maturity and they don’t strong enough for challenges.
#6. Too Much Expectation
Some people get married happily but they bring in too much, sometimes unrealistic, expectation about their spouse. When this expectation remains expectation, disappointment leads to problems and love fades. They lost their reason to stay on the marriage.
#7. No Equality
Equality on role and responsibility in a marriage is essential for long term stability. When a marriage is lack on equality, and one person feels too much burden, the marriage will soon devolve and can’t be helped anymore.
#8. Not Prepared
Often, people get married only on nice reasons they could see. Meanwhile, there are challenges and problems a couple will need to conquer. Being unprepared on harder commitment along with the challenges leaves a couple no ability to survive it.
If we have any situation similar to the reasons above, we may need to start thinking about getting a divorce. However, we can also try better by looking so hard for the solution and try our best to make the marriage works.